My wife’s friend and
fellow running blogger just ran her first full marathon recently. As I am running my first full marathon in
December, her journey is an inspiration.
You can read her blog at This Mom Runs Blog or follower
her on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/runnermomx3.
Lessons of a Mountain Marathon Mom.
I have a tendency to be
impulsive. I try very hard to rein it in, using my head to make good decisions,
rather than my heart. At the beginning of the year, the idea of a marathon
popped into my head. Turning 40 this year was getting to me. Not in a midlife
crisis kind of way, just wanting to DO something. I was training for my 2nd
half marathon at the time, so I was able to push the “marathon” thoughts back a
bit so I could focus on that. I came home from the Disney Princess half
marathon at the end of February, and those “marathon” thoughts started coming
back. The Disney race was supposed to be my “40th birthday celebration” race.
It wasn’t really a question of “could I?” but “will I?” do a marathon.
I looked up a few
training plans, and found Jeff Galloway’s run/walk method. I read lots of
reviews about it and though it was perfect for me. When the going gets tough, I
will use this method. Easy, peasy. Next step, find a race. I wanted a race that
would allow me to continue training where the half marathon left off. This put
me into May, but also into the end of marathon season in the south. I had just
spent A LOT of money on the Disney race, so it was my one destination race for
the year.
I had to find something
within driving distance. In the end I found the race I knew I was destined to
do. The King’s Mountain Marathon is a small race, open course, and NO TIME
LIMIT! I read all the reviews that said don’t make this your first race. (Did
you see the word Mountain in that race name?) I also read the one review that
talked about how beautiful this course is, and how wonderful the race
organizers and fellow runners are. That one review sold me, and I ignored
(blocked) everything that said mountain, incline, or hill. Bonus, the race was
exactly 1 month to the day from my 40th birthday. It was meant to be! My goal
was to finish the race, hopefully under 6 hours, but I would be happy just to
finish.
Let the training begin!
I knew getting the training in would not be an issue. I work from home, so I
can stay home with my two littlest boys. Nap time is treadmill time on the
treadmill, when I know I won’t be able to fit in a run before dark, due to my
husband’s work schedule.
Marathon Training Lesson
1:
If you ever get the bright
idea to combine a 5K race, followed by a 10K race, followed by another 7 miles
to get your long run in, just...don’t. My favorite race in March has two races
that you can participate in. I figured it would be a good way to kick off
training. I wanted to PR my 5k, and just survive the 10k. The PR didn’t happen,
but I had no issues running the 10K. I used the Jeff Galloway run/walk method
since I still had a lot of miles to cover that day. A friend of mine was
triathlon training and volunteered to ride her bike with me while I got my last
7 miles in. I made it about 5 miles, and then my hips and IT band started
killing me. Plus, I was just plain exhausted. I’ve never had IT band issues, so
I was worried about it getting worse and called it a day. Lesson learned.
Long runs were every 3rd
week, and I found it easy to get the shorter runs in between. I maxed out the
incline on my treadmill, 3 days a week, for at least 3 to 5 miles. I had to do
everything possible to imitate the hills that I would experience during the
race, and that was my best option.
For my longer runs, I
hit my neighborhood, where there is a decent incline, but for my 20 mile runs I
went to Salem Lake. This park is a local runners/bikers fave. It has a 7 mile
loop around a beautiful lake, and a couple of pretty steep hills.
Marathon Training
Lessons 2 through 11: My first 20 mile run.
2) If you run a trail around a lake in lots of
fog, and decide to randomly break out in dance to "Uptown Funk",
there may be 2 fishermen sitting in a boat right beside you.
3) Apple pie Lara bars are NOT a good mid run
refuel. In fact, you shouldn't eat anything with apples in it while running.
4) A 50 Oz Camelback hydration pack lasts
12.25miles.
5) A Garmin 10 GPS watch can, and will, stop
working at 15.94 miles. (Thank goodness for trail mile markers!)
6) Just when you need it most, your phone that is
tucked securely away in your running belt, will call your BFF at work, on her
cell phone AND send her an email. Talking to your BFF at mile 14 is awesome!
(Bet your phone doesn't read YOUR mind!)
7) After you are finished 20 miles, and at your
sweatiest and stinkiest, having a 20 year old hit on you is a HUGE ego boost.
8) If you don't need compression socks while
running, they will be your best friend for the 40 minute drive home.
9) Ice baths are inhumane.
10) Ice baths are awesome when you're done with
them.
11) This distance is hard. So many mental hurdles
to overcome. Period.
I
survived that day, and I felt SO strong. Knowing I could actually run 20 miles
was a huge mental boost. I did hit the “wall” around mile 16 when my watch gave
out. My hamstrings have always been my weak point, and they were really tight
during the last few miles. But I pushed through it. One step at a time, one
mile at a time, until it was done.
Marathon
Training Lesson #12: You
don’t have to rely on ice baths for recovery. I discovered room temperature
baths, with lots of Epsom Salt, along with DoTerra Deep Blue rub. No more
torturing myself with ice!!
Three
weeks before race day, I had time for one more 20 mile run.
Marathon
Training Lesson #13: Training
with friends makes the miles fly by, keeps "the wall" at bay, and
keeps you going when you need it most. Running friends are the best friends,
period. My same triathlon friend rode her bike with me 20.5 miles that day. I
could not believe how fast the time went by, even though I ran for close to 5
hours! I hit a “small” wall around mile 18, but K helped me push through it. I
knew that if I ever did this again, every long run needed to be done this way.
Again, my hamstring was giving my problems, but I pushed through once again.
Everyone
tells you about the taper period, and how hard it can be. I did doubt myself
several times, and was worried that I did not train enough. I KNOW I did
enough, but that self doubt is always there. Then we sold our house, two days
after listing it, with no idea of where we were going to live. Thankfully that
distraction kept my mind off of wanting to run longer or question the training,
and busy enough that I could only do the shorter distance the training called
for. I’ve also read to stop the strength training as well. I did continue to do
some hamstring strengthening workouts 3 days a week, hoping in the end it would
help.
One
week until race time, and a few things happened.
Number 1, I was sick, again. Every single long distance
race I have ever done has resulted in me getting sick the week before. I’m
cursed. Having two preschool age kids, that’s just the way it is. I hit
every natural remedy I knew of, and rested as much as possible.
Number 2, King’s Mountain Marathon
posted on their Facebook page that the tree line in their logo is the elevation
chart for the course. Remember, I was in denial that I was about to run a
marathon, on a mountain. I could not “unsee” that. Mile 19 was going to
be bad. I found myself questioning what I was about to do several times a day.
Number 3, One of my closest friends let me know that
she was going to be there for me, and would run part of the course with me if I
wanted. At this point, I was not sure if my husband was coming to the race, due
to our move. This was a very big deal for me. I cried. I knew that I was going
to need her, so we made plans for her to meet me at the bottom of mile 19. This
was just the boost I needed.
The
night before, my husband and I dropped the kids off at his parents, and he let
me know he decided to come for the entire race, rather than just for the end.
Big sigh of relief, since I now knew I would not have to drive myself home for
1.5 hours after running 26.2 miles on a mountain! Ok, ok, I really needed his
support, too! Knowing that he was going to be there for the entire race was
another positive boost to get me through the pre-race jitters.
I
actually slept really well that night, waking up on race morning feeling
refreshed and healthy! We left around 5:30 am to make the drive to King’s
Mountain in time for race day packet pick up. I was keeping my nerves at bay,
but as we entered King’s Mountain State Park, I found myself a bit emotional.
In just about an hours time I was going to run a marathon! The reality of it
was sinking in. While going through my pre-race ritual I met another girl, J,
who was also doing her first marathon and we chatted for a bit about what was
to come and our goals.
I also
had a friend that was running the half marathon that morning so I later met up
with her. Both races started together, so I was excited to start out the race
with a familiar face. We made our way toward the back of the start line,
so I would not be tempted to go all out when the gun went off. I gave my
husband one last kiss, and it was go time!
I was
able to run with my friend for the first mile or so, until the half marathon
and marathon courses split. We wished each other luck, and went our separate course
ways. I decided that I wanted to run a bit without doing run/walk to see how I
felt. Once the marathon split, I found myself running with my new friend J,
which I met before the race, and one other girl, M. We ran together for awhile
and quickly started up a conversation. All 3 of us were first time marathoners,
so we had lots to talk about it, as far as our training and previous races.
After awhile J pulled away, leaving just M and I to run this race together.
I
have to say that talking while racing is not something I typically do. If I’m
running a 5k, I am in a zone and doing everything I can to push my limits and
finish strong. This was different. Running this race with M was the biggest
blessing, and was just meant to be. We were close to the same age, and our
oldest children were the same age. We spent almost the entire race talking
about anything and everything. Before I knew it we were at the halfway mark,
and I had not walked a single time. The hills were bearable, and I was feeling
good. I was staying fueled and hydrated. We decided together to do some
run/walk for a bit to conserve our energy for the mountains to come. The miles
continued to fly by, with good conversation and the constant motivation we were
feeding to each other.
I was
anxious about approaching mile 19 and the biggest hill of the race. My husband
and friend, T, were waiting for us at the aid station just before the
“mountain.” My husband helped me quickly change shoes, and T then joined us to
tackle the mountain before us. I knew it was going to be bad when my husband
bent down and whispered that he loved me, and that he really wanted me to be
careful and not overdo it, with what was coming next. The hills were getting
steeper, and higher, and it was pretty warm out. There was a lot of walking
involved. I don’t know if anything could have prepared me for those kind of
hills. We continued to press forward. T ran with us for about 4 miles, and then
her and my husband drove to the finish line, to meet me there. M and I decided
to run the rest of the race if we could, because we were feeling good, in spite
of the hills. But, the hills just kept coming.
The
last mile, M pulled forward and was greeted by her family who helped to run her
in. I texted my husband and told him I was sick of all the hills, because I
wanted to run and was struggling. Him and T drove back to find me around mile
25. I had run out of water, so I got some from him, and handed him my Camelback
pack to lighten my load. I told him right then, that this would not be my last
marathon. I knew what I was capable of, and these hills would not beat me. I
was going to find another race with a flatter course, and show myself what I
could do. They went back to the finish line, knowing I was close. I never hit
the wall, I just hit more hills. I think that was my biggest source of
frustration for this race. My fueling and hydration were perfect. I felt great,
my hamstrings never once bothered me, and I had plenty of energy. But, trying
to run straight up nonstop was getting old quick.
Finally,
the end was in sight. The finish line, the last .2 miles was straight up. Are
you kidding me!? But, T and the hubby were there waiting for me and helped run
me in. My friend that ran the half had stuck around to watch me finish. Having
that support at the end was the best thing ever!
I did
it. 5 hours and 42 minutes. I just ran a marathon. I just ran a marathon on a
mountain.
One
month from that day I turned 40. I am a wife, mother, daughter, niece, and
sister. That day, I also became a marathoner. I finished under 6 hours,
reaching my goal. I could not have done this without the help of my husband,
family and friends that were there for me, in person or in spirit. Now, find me
a flat beach course and I'll totally do it again. But, you can have these
hills!
Marathon
lesson, Number 14: Trust
in yourself, trust in your training. If you think want to try this distance,
then commit to it. I’m just an everyday girl, running an average pace. I’m not
athletic, by nature. I’m still carrying extra belly from my last 2 babies (and
because I really like chocolate). I need to tone up, a lot. My point is that,
you don’t have to look like a Marathoner to be one. You only need to believe in
yourself.
Christine
Motsinger, Wife, Mom of 3 boys, Marathoner x1, Half Marathoner x2, 10K x1, 8K
x2, Multiple 5ker
Me!!
Me
and my new Sole Sister!
Glow in the Dark Race
Bling
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